Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

All men aren't narcissists

1 Aug 2025 · 1 min

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In this short video, Sami Wunder critiques the overuse of the label "narcissist" in contemporary dating culture. She points out that many women hastily label men who assert themselves or stand up for themselves as narcissists, even when no abuse is present. While acknowledging that genuine narcissistic abuse and toxic relationships exist and are serious, she warns against weaponizing the term against all men. Wunder emphasizes that repeated behaviors that make a partner feel insecure, unsafe, or gaslit are red flags, and she urges listeners to trust their feelings and stop tolerating such treatment, insisting that everyone deserves to feel good, happy, safe, and secure in a relationship.

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in the dating industry right now, this word narcissist is being used too much. And every time a woman doesn't like the way a man behaves, there are unaware women out there who will just call a man a narcissist. For those women who have experienced narcissists, abuse, toxic relationships, all of that stuff is real. Don't use this information to hold it against every man who speaks for himself or stands up for himself. But if somebody shows these signs to you repeatedly, then it is certainly a red flag. And remember, in all relationships, you deserve to feel good, happy, safe, and secure. So if a man repeatedly makes you feel insecure, bad, makes you feel like you're crazy, then trust in that feeling and don't keep tolerating.