Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Are you chasing him?

2 May 2024 · 0 min

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In this segment, relationship coach Sami Wunder explains how a scarcity mindset creates anxiety about a single romantic connection. When a partner’s communication wanes or they disappear, the resulting fear drives the individual to call, text, and chase the partner. This behavior flips the usual pursuit dynamic, turning the person who should be waiting into the one actively seeking, which can undermine the partner’s motivation to invest.

And when we have energy of scarcity, we get really anxious about that one great connection we have with a man. If we don't hear from him, his texts die down, or he disappears, he doesn't call, then we want to do anything to save that connection. Your instinct will be to call him, to text him. Before you know it, the dynamics of the pursuit have turned around. You are the one calling, texting, chasing, versus him doing the work to win you.