Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Are you falling into convincing mode? 🧐

25 Nov 2023 · 0 min

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In this segment, relationship coach Sami Wunder explains the concept of "convincing mode"—the tendency to try to persuade a partner to commit when the partner expresses doubts. She highlights how intense desire for love, marriage, and commitment can trigger fear and insecurity, causing people (often women) to overlook red flags and attempt to convince the other person that the relationship will work, even when doubts are evident.

Because you want that guy, you want that person, you want that date to work out, you want to get the ring, you want to have the marriage, you want to have the commitment. And so we have to be so watchful when men are expressing doubts about the equation, and that triggers our own fears and insecurities. And we want that love so bad, and we want that man so bad, and we want it to work out so bad, that without realizing, so many times we fall into convincing mode.