Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Are you feeling obsessed with him?

27 Apr 2024 · 0 min

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In this brief YouTube segment, relationship coach Sami Wunder explains that feeling obsessed with a man usually stems from his lack of attention toward you. She describes the emotional symptoms—anxiety, insecurity, and walking on eggshells—that accompany this unreciprocated fixation. Wunder advises viewers to check their "love‑choosing compass" (their internal radar for evaluating partners), noting that it’s currently misaligned. The core recommendation is to stop giving the obsessive person excessive mental space and to recalibrate one’s own standards and attention, thereby reducing anxiety and regaining emotional balance.

If you're feeling obsessed with a guy, it's most likely because he's not giving you the attention you desire from him. You need to pay special attention to your love-choosing compass, your radar, because your radar is off right now. You are basically feeling anxious, feeling insecure, walking on eggshells, and obsessing with a guy who is not that into you. Feeling obsessed with somebody is just giving an undue amount of mind space and headspace to a man.