Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Are you fun in your relationship?

18 Apr 2024 · 0 min

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In this segment of Sami Wunder’s relationship advice video, she emphasizes the importance of maintaining polarity with a male partner. She advises women to let their partner experience leadership by occasionally surrendering and allowing him to pursue them, especially when they are in a more masculine mode. While polarity should be sustained most of the time, she cautions against obsessing over perfection or becoming overly rigid or frigid, as these attitudes strip relationships of fun, flow, and authenticity. The core message is to balance leadership and surrender to keep the relationship lively and genuine.

maintain polarity around your guy. Give him the experience of letting him be the leader, allowing yourself to surrender, allowing him to pursue you if you are in your masculine sometimes. But you can maintain polarity around a guy most of the times. You're fine. Do not get obsessed with doing it perfectly. Do not get rigid and frigid around it. It takes the fun away in relationships, and we want fun in our relationships. We want flow. We want authenticity. Rigidity and frigidity is the opposite of those qualities.