Are you over invested in him?
29 Apr 2024 · 0 min
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In this segment of the YouTube video “Are you over invested in him?”, relationship coach Sami Wunder explains a core premise of his dating advice: men are biologically programmed to compete for women they view as the highest‑quality mates. Because such women are perceived to have multiple options, a man’s interest is heightened when the woman appears to have choices. Conversely, when a woman appears overly invested—showing excessive care or desperation—it signals to the man that she has few alternatives, which can diminish his attraction and competitive drive. The clip serves as a concise argument for women to maintain a balanced level of interest to preserve perceived scarcity and desirability.
