Are you unapproachable?

To make a man obsessed with you, be soft, warm, and inviting in his presence. Career-oriented women tend to approach dating and men like it's a business meeting. Body language-wise, energy-wise, the woman is just not relaxed, soft, warm, and inviting to men. She's very guarded. She has a straight face. She's not inviting. Her energy is, stay away, don't approach me, versus, come to me, I am really fun, hang out with me, I am safe. It's so important to be that warm, inviting version of yourself because you don't want to appear unapproachable.