Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Are you Winging it in dating?

5 Jul 2024 · 1 min

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In this solo YouTube talk, Sami Wunder argues that many high‑achieving women fail at dating because they treat it the same way they approach their careers—showing up without a clear plan, relying on business charisma, and assuming those skills will translate to romance. She explains that dating requires intentional emotional connection and a deliberate strategy, and that without awareness of how they present themselves, women won’t achieve the relationship results they desire. The video sets up the problem of "winging it" in dating, highlights the mismatch between professional and romantic skill sets, and calls for a purposeful approach to how women show up on dates.

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The first reason why a lot of strong, successful women are struggling in dating, struggling to find the one, is because they are winging it. This means you just show up on the dates, you don't know how to talk, you don't know how to connect emotionally with men. That means you don't create the kind of results you desire. Men and women are different when it comes to the world of romance. You're hoping that your skills from your business and your career, your socializing skills and your charisma, is going to be enough in dating. That is not how it works. If a woman is not aware of how she's showing up and she doesn't really have a plan, she's not going to get results.