Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

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12 Jun 2024 · 1 min

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In this concise dating advice video, Sami Wunder urges viewers—particularly women—to adopt an intentional approach to early dating. He recommends taking relationships slowly, balancing physical attraction with deliberate tests of compatibility, shared long‑term values, and a common vision for the future. Wunder stresses the importance of having critical conversations right away about marriage, children, and other partnership goals, and he encourages the courage to walk away when red flags appear, even if chemistry is strong. By becoming intentional daters, women can evaluate men as potential partners rather than being swept away solely by attraction.

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Think about taking it slow at the start. Think about being able to value physical attraction, testing for compatibility, testing for long-term values, testing for alignment of vision of a shared future, being willing to walk away despite the physical attraction if you notice red flags, having the courage to say, this has been wonderful and I don't think it's working for me, having some important conversations right at the start. Are you looking for marriage? Do you want kids? These are important questions. Only when women become intentional daters, they find the power within themselves to evaluate men for a partnership versus lost in the attraction and in the chemistry that dating brings.