Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Be a reasonable partner

4 Nov 2024 · 1 min

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In this YouTube monologue, Sami Wunder advises listeners on how to be a reasonable partner in dating and relationships. She emphasizes that while a man’s financial contribution is important, true provision also includes his time, energy, effort, emotional availability, love, companionship, physical intimacy, and practical support. She urges women to maintain a sense of polarity—ensuring the man is giving his maximum—while still being reasonable and sharing equally in the relationship. The core message is to seek a balanced partnership where both partners contribute in multiple dimensions beyond money.

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Show up as a more reasonable partner and be willing to share, while still maintaining polarity and still making sure that the man is pouring in more than you are financially. A man is not just about the money he brings. A man is also so much more than that. Provision can happen not just in terms of money. Provision can happen in terms of his time, his energy towards you, his effort towards you, his emotional availability towards you. What is a big deal is love, companionship, being held, being kissed, being made love to, having a partner in crime, somebody you can call when your tire goes flat or you're really sick. So if you're dating somebody be a reasonable person while maintaining the polarity, ensuring that he's pouring the max, but you're still being reasonable.