Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Be genuine in a relationship

15 Mar 2024 · 0 min

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In this monologue, Sami Wunder emphasizes the importance of authenticity in romantic relationships, defining it as the alignment of one’s words, feelings, and actions. She argues that such genuine expression is especially emotionally attractive to high-value men, whereas misalignment—when a woman’s actions, feelings, and words do not match—creates an unconscious sense of distrust. This distrust causes men to raise their guard and withdraw trust, making the relationship less appealing. The advice suggests that navigating difficult situations with genuine communication helps maintain emotional attraction and trust.

And when your words match what you really feel inside, you are authentic, you are genuine. Sometimes there will be some conflict, sometimes both of you will navigate a difficult situation. This is far more emotionally attractive to a high-value man than a woman whose actions and feelings and words are not aligned. He can feel the misalignment, but he can't place a finger on it. And the result of that— men stop trusting the woman and their guard goes up because they're like, I can't really trust what she's saying because she never really speaks the truth.