Build Emotional Intimacy With Men By Doing This

Are you ready and excited to learn what makes you unforgettable to a man? What makes you absolutely irreplaceable in his world? What ensures in dating that no other woman, whether she's younger or has a hotter body, can ever replace you again? Well, if you're curious to know what this skill is, it's called the skill of building emotional intimacy With the men/the man you like. And literally, when a woman knows how to do this, she has no competition in the world of dating at all whatsoever. So in this video, I'm going to be showing you the amazing, incredible skill of how you can start building emotional intimacy with the men you like, the men you're dating, And how building this skill ensures that men will not ghost on you anymore, they will not fizzle out on you anymore, and that there's actually real potential for the relationship to develop into something serious and maybe even go all the way to forever commitment and the proposal that you desire. This is dating and relationship coach Sami Wunder. Make sure to hit the red subscribe button below if you want to hear from me regularly, every Friday, on how you can attract and create the the most incredible romantic relationship of your life as a strong, successful woman. Now, let's talk about what is emotional attraction and what is emotional intimacy and why it's important in the first place. So a romantic relationship, when you're in the world of dating, when you are meeting guys, a romantic relationship has 2 components. Basically, one is about friendship, And the other part is about physical desire, sex, physical attraction. Now, emotional attraction or emotional intimacy is the friendship part of the equation. And what often happens is that women, especially in today's world, where we are being bombarded with Photoshopped photographs of supermodels and perfect bodies in bikinis all the time, women are paying far too much attention to the physical desire component of romantic relationships, By paying a lot of attention to how they look— Botox, fillers, boob implants, etc. And of course, there's nothing wrong with taking good care of your appearance. There's nothing wrong with looking after your body. But I think there's this overemphasis that happens when we are paying so much attention to being physically attractive to men and completely neglecting the other component, which is the friendship part of romantic relationship. The friendship part of the romantic relationship is what emotional intimacy and emotional attraction with men is all about. Now, when we pay so much attention to the physical aspect, making sure we dress sexy, making sure we wear the right hat, making sure we look good— that's good, but so often the women who are putting all that emphasis will come back to me as my clients and tell me, Sami, Men just want to get in my pants. Men just want to sleep with me. Men don't really want to make an effort to get to know me. Men don't want to offer me exclusivity, offer me the ring, the proposal. It's all about just somehow getting me into the bed. If this is your challenge, you may want to reflect on if there is too much emphasis going on on the physical desire, the physical attraction side of things, But there's not enough attention that is being paid to building emotional intimacy and emotional attraction with men. This is literally the missing piece of the puzzle for so many incredible single women who keep telling me, men keep ghosting off, men don't want to do this with me for the long run. If this is happening for you, you want to pay attention to building emotional intimacy and emotional attraction with men. This is the part that's going to make you unforgettable to him when you know how to activate his emotions. And stay deeply emotionally connected with him. So on that note, now that you've understood the importance of emotional intimacy and building emotional attraction with the man that you like, let's talk about how you can get started on this journey. So the first thing is to get out of superficial conversations with men. In other words, if you're just talking about the weather and you're just talking about your hobbies all the time, you're not really allowing yourself to go deeper with this person. Now, if you're going to keep the conversations at a surface level, you can never, ever build a deeper emotional connection with the man you like. And so the first step is to really get brave. Be brave enough to talk about topics that are interesting to you and that go deeper beyond just your most favorite shopping place or your most favorite traveling place or, you know, the most favorite food, right? These are all small topics, and while they could totally work in friendship circles. I think in the dating circle, you want to show up going a little deeper. Be brave enough to talk about things that matter to you, things that are of value to you, even if that means you're taking a risk. I remember when I was dating, somebody asked me, what brought you to Germany? I said it was my master's. They said, do you want to go back to India? And I said, no, I've worked really hard to get my master's. And even though this might seem controversial to hear, you know, I'm really happy here in Germany and I love the fresh air. I love the freedom here that I have as a woman. And I am not looking to go back right now to my country as much as I love its people, as much as I love the food, as much as I miss my family. You know, I'm really happy here. And of course, it turned off some people, but for my husband, for example, for Chris to hear that, he saw confidence in it. And he also saw that I was willing to show myself. I was willing to show my heart. I was willing to go deeper with him and take that risk of being judged, of being rejected, of triggering him, and still sort of being committed to forming that deeper emotional connection with the right person. And so be brave and don't just stay superficial and don't just do small talk. It's not going to foster that deeper emotional intimacy that you're looking for. Now, the second way you can build deeper emotional intimacy with the man you like, or the men you're dating who have potential, is to share more of your true feelings. Now, this again can feel really hard, especially if you are like me or one of my clients. You know, as high-achieving women, we tend to stuff our feelings down. We judge and see our feelings as weakness. But your feelings are one of the most powerful tools for you to actually let a man see you, let a man feel you, let a man feel your truth. And when a woman is too afraid to share and express her feelings, she literally blocks the connection, the emotional connection, from building with the guy that she likes. I remember there was a client in ELEVATE, which is my signature 6-month group coaching program, where she spoke to me about how this guy wanted her to walk through the marshes to the restaurant that they were booked at, where he had reserved a table, and she was wearing high shoes. My client didn't want to upset the guy, and so she didn't even say to him that, you know, she's got these high heels on. And so she just walked through the marshes to the restaurant, and at the end of the whole experience, she was so pissed off, so annoyed at herself, at him, And he was like, you know, he could feel her energy. And then when she asked for our support, you know, should I see him again? He made me walk through the marshes. I was like, why didn't you say something? Why didn't you share your feelings with him? At least now go and share your feelings. And so she basically said, sorry, I had a bad mood because I had high heels on and I walked through the marshes and I thought you didn't even care that I was walking in high heels. And he's like, oh my God, you were wearing a long skirt. I didn't even notice your shoes. And this was the first date. And he's like, thank you for sharing. I am so sorry that you had to spoil your shoes, and you could have just told me, and we would have either found another restaurant, or we would have found another way to get there. Long story short, she was so afraid of upsetting him. She was so afraid of sharing why she was pissed or why she was frustrated in that moment. And had she just done that, even though it feels counterintuitive, it would have actually fostered deeper intimacy between the two of them. And this is the power of sharing your feelings. Now, of course, sometimes we tend to take this advice to another level, to an extreme level, where we're constantly sharing our feelings and we're constantly sharing what upsets us. So remember, none of this advice is end-of-the-spectrum advice. It's not extreme advice. You don't have to share every negative feeling. You can absolutely take your time to process stuff. You can decide what you tell men, what you decide not to tell men. However, what we're talking about is a basic level of comfort that you need to cultivate with your own feelings and emotions, so that you can, at the right moments, have the courage to express yourself and have the courage to say what's on your mind and have the courage to share your feelings, because it is through your feelings that you build that deeper emotional connection with him. Now, the 3rd way you can build emotional attraction and deeper intimacy with men you like is literally by asking them intimacy fostering Now, what are intimacy-fostering questions? These questions are questions that go deeper than your superficial, what do you do for a living? What is your favorite hobby? What do you love to drink? What's your favorite food? Again, very superficial. And as I said in point number 1, if we're going to stay superficial, we're going to get superficial. If you want a deeper connection, you have to be brave enough to go deeper yourself. And so intimacy fostering questions are actually a great way to see if the guy in front of you is going to drop his guard, is going to reveal himself to you, is going to feel comfortable around you to reveal himself to you. And so intimacy fostering questions are basically questions that go and help you reflect deeper on the other person's life story, their life experience, who they are as a person, who they are as a human being, beyond their job, beyond You know, their roles as a dad, as a boss. And here's the thing, I have a PDF where I give you the 10 intimacy fostering questions you can ask any man, whether you've just started dating him or you've been with him for a few months, or even if you're in an exclusive relationship. And what these questions are going to do for you and for this man is that you will get to know him in a deeper way, in a more intimate way. It's going to foster intimacy between the two of you. And it happens so fast, and it's so beautiful. Now, this guide is €97, and it's actually part of my paid program, Building Emotional Attraction with High-Quality Men. But today, you can download it for free! Isn't that amazing? You will find the link in the description below. And inside the guide, you will also find an incredible offer on Building Emotional Attraction with High-Quality Men digital program. It is an instantly downloadable program, and it is going deep into the topic of how to build emotional attraction and emotional connection with high-quality men. This is a game-changing skill to learn. I've spoken about the 3 ways today, but inside the program, I give you so many more ways to build that emotional connection with the guy you like, so that you become irreplaceable And unforgettable in dating him. So click the link below, download your free guide, and if Building Emotional Attraction calls you, I'd love for you to join me inside this program on the incredible offer I am giving you right now. See you! Bye! Bye!