Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Can he trust you?

26 Feb 2024 · 1 min

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In this short self‑help monologue, Sami Wunder argues that a healthy, masculine man becomes more attracted to a woman when she confidently says “no.” He claims that a woman’s willingness to set boundaries and speak her truth signals confidence, desirability, and trustworthiness. Each time a woman refuses to please a man in the moment, the man perceives her as empowered, which deepens his bond and makes her more attractive because he feels he can truly trust her.

A masculine man falls in love with you when you know how to say no. He finds your no sexy, confident, and desirable. He bonds with you more when he knows that you're not afraid to see him upset, not please him in that moment when you are speaking your own truth and saying no. Every time a woman says no to an empowered, healthy masculine man and draws her boundaries, he finds her more and more attractive because he finally ends up feeling like he can trust her.