Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Can you change a man's mind? 😕

21 Nov 2023 · 0 min

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In this segment of his relationship‑advice video, Sami Wunder explains why trying to convince “empowered masculine” men to change their stance on commitment, children, or life direction is ineffective. He argues that these men act according to their own internal drive and will not be swayed by logical persuasion. Instead, a man’s mind changes when he feels inspired to act differently. The advice encourages listeners to recognize when a partner is not ready for a full‑throttle commitment and to focus on inspiring rather than convincing, positioning inspiration as the catalyst for genuine change in a relationship context.

On the empowered masculine men, convincing mode is not going to work because these men do what they want to do. And so if they're expressing that you're too far away, if they're expressing that they're not in the right place in life to make a commitment to you, if they're expressing that they don't want to have kids, if they're expressing that they're not ready for a full-throttle commitment, then you trying to get into convincing mode is not going to change their mind. You know what changes a man's mind? When he is inspired to do things differently. I got a little—