Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Create emotional attraction in him

12 May 2025 · 1 min

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In this YouTube segment, relationship coach Sami Wunder explains how women can intensify a man's emotional attraction by deliberately escalating flirting and raising emotional stakes. She argues that many men, regardless of outward confidence, carry underlying fears of rejection and abandonment. By taking the lead—through teasing, challenging, and more assertive flirtation—a woman can trigger emotional responses that create a spark in the man's brain, thereby increasing his interest and commitment. The advice emphasizes observing the man's emotional reactions, stepping up the flirtation gradually, and positioning oneself as the initiator of emotional experiences.

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Start creating more emotional attraction in him. Escalate the flirting. Pay attention to how is this person, how is this man that I like experiencing me emotionally? Start going in a little harder with the flirting. Create an emotional spark inside a man's brain. A lot of men, even if they are extroverted, even if they are very successful, harbor feelings of a fear of being rejected, of being abandoned, harbor fear of, does she really like me? Should I really pursue this with her? If you like this person and you want to step up their emotional attraction towards you, then be the leader in terms of flirting, teasing him, challenging him, because all these are experiences that create emotions within a man, that trigger a man. So to create more emotional attraction in a man, escalate the flirting, escalate the stakes emotionally in that situation.