Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Dealing with an emotionally unavailable man, like THIS 🔥

5 Nov 2023 · 1 min

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In this segment, Sami Wunder advises women on how to handle emotionally unavailable men. She argues that repeatedly nagging or complaining about unmet needs is ineffective; if a request has already been made many times without response, saying it more will not change the outcome. Instead, women should recognize when their current approach isn’t working. Wunder emphasizes that men typically only change when they have internal motivation, not because of external pressure or persistent complaints.

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To deal with a man who is emotionally unavailable is to stop nagging and complaining about how he's not meeting your needs. So often, we think as women that if we just said it 100 times, or maybe 110 times, the man is going to listen and meet our needs. But if you think back, if you've already made a request 100 times and you see that these men are not responding to you and they're not meeting your request, then saying the same thing 100 times more is not going to make a difference. And so we have to understand and we have to see when a strategy is not working. With emotionally unavailable men, you know, women tend to go in the nagging and complaining zone. And we think if we just nag and complain and push enough, he's going to change. But that's not how men are. They don't change unless they have internal inspiration to change.