Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Do NOT chase a man

10 Sept 2024 · 0 min

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In this brief YouTube monologue, Sami Wunder clarifies that the advice “don’t chase a man” is not about playing hard‑to‑get or trying too hard. Instead, she urges women to be openly interested, available, and expressive of their feelings. However, she stresses that the responsibility for taking action still lies with men – they must approach the woman, make plans, and drive the interaction forward. When men do this, women will respond positively, engage, and agree to dates, but they should not be expected to pursue the man themselves.

This is not about artificially playing hard to get. This is also not about trying too hard. It's about being the woman who shows her interest, who is open, who's available. But then you have to do the work, dude. You have to come to her and you have to make things happen. She will respond warmly. She will engage with you. She will go out with you. But it doesn't mean that she's going to chase after you.