Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Do NOT chase men

3 Sept 2024 · 1 min

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In this YouTube segment, Sami Wunder advises women to stop chasing men, emphasizing that confident, successful women view themselves as the prize and let men pursue them. She explains that when a man begins to pull away, it can trigger fears of abandonment and feelings of not being good enough, which often lead to desperate or needy behaviors that diminish a woman's perceived value. Wunder urges women to recognize these emotional triggers and instead demonstrate their own value, maintaining confidence and self-worth even when feeling ignored or abandoned, thereby avoiding neediness and preserving attraction.

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Most smart, successful women do not chase men. They know they are the prize. They let men pursue them. But when a man you like starts to pull away from you, this can activate all kinds of fears and not-good-enough emotions inside a woman, which can make her behave in ways that lower her value in the eyes of a man and demonstrate desperation or neediness. You should demonstrate value in a scenario where you find yourself being abandoned, feeling neglected, ignored by the man that you like and who you thought was going to be the one or had serious potential.