Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Do THIS before you say yes to him

23 May 2024 · 1 min

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In this solo dating‑advice video, Sami Wunder urges viewers to pause before committing to a man. She argues that while physical attraction can spark interest, lasting relationships require deeper vetting. She advises assessing how a potential partner behaves under stress or anger, his long‑term values, and his attitudes toward successful women and women who earn more than him. Wunder cautions against saying “yes” to sex, exclusivity, or a relationship before confirming alignment on these critical dimensions, emphasizing that premature commitment can lead to mismatched expectations and unhappiness.

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Do you take your time before you say yes to a man? Do you take your time to vet him, to evaluate him? In the beginning of dating, it's very easy to like somebody, to feel the physical attraction with a great guy. However, physical attraction is not enough to give you the relationship of a lifetime, the relationship of your dreams, without really having vetted the person on who he is when things don't go his way, when he's angry, when he has stress, compatibility on long-term values. What does he think about a successful woman? What does he think about women making more money than him? You shouldn't be saying Yes to being with them. You shouldn't be sleeping with them. You shouldn't be saying yes to exclusivity.