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In this concise monologue, Sami Wunder explains the dating tactic of "pacing"—deliberately limiting availability and avoiding overt eagerness—to make a healthy masculine man more attracted. She argues that when a woman says "no" or appears less available, the man perceives her as not idolizing him, recognizing that she is also successful, smart, and attractive with her own options. This contrast to typical chasing behavior signals confidence and differentiation from other women, which can heighten his interest. The advice targets women seeking to attract men without appearing desperate, emphasizing self-worth, equality, and strategic non‑availability.

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