Does he avoid talking about the future?
In this YouTube monologue, relationship coach Sami Wunder explains that a key sign a man is using a woman is his avoidance of any discussion about the future. She describes how manipulative men—those seeking sex, money, benefits, or connections—focus solely on short‑term gains and therefore never talk about commitment, exclusivity, or long‑term plans. Wunder contrasts this with men who are genuinely interested, noting that they naturally reference future activities and intentions. She warns viewers that if a partner consistently dodges future‑oriented conversation, it signals that the relationship is transactional rather than romantic, and she frames this behavior as a major red flag that should prompt the woman to reassess the partnership.
