Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Does he respect you?

4 Mar 2024 · 1 min

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In this short YouTube monologue, relationship coach Sami Wunder warns women against the common impulse to abandon their own lives when they meet an attractive, successful man. She advises that women should aggressively maintain their personal independence and schedule, especially during the early stages of getting to know a partner. Wunder argues that a truly healthy, empowered masculine partner will not demand that a woman drop her own passions and responsibilities; instead, he will respect and appreciate a woman who continues to care for her own life. The core message is that preserving independence not only protects a woman's well‑being but also signals to a good man that she is self‑sufficient, which in turn earns his respect.

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As women, it is so tempting when we meet a handsome, successful man to drop everything in our life to go give him that time that we also want to spend with him. But ideally, you want to preserve your life really aggressively, especially when you're getting to know a healthy, empowered, masculine man, because it is so tempting in those phases when you're getting to know someone to drop everything and just fix them in your schedule anyhow, just so that you can see them. Well, a good guy, a solid guy who has a life of his own, who has passions of his own, will never expect that from you and will actually respect you so much more when he sees that you are able to take care of the independence of your own life.