Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Don't be forced into physical intimacy!

13 Nov 2024 · 1 min

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In this brief monologue, Sami Wunder warns against using the withholding of sex as a punitive tool in long‑term, exclusive relationships, describing it as unfair and unhealthy. She advocates for open dialogue about resentment and emotional needs as the proper pathway to restoring both emotional and physical intimacy. Wunder stresses that sexual activity should never be performed solely for a partner’s comfort; instead, it must be consensual, with no woman feeling forced, pressured, or pushed into sex. The overall message promotes respectful communication and clear consent as foundations for healthy intimacy.

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Do not use the withdrawing of sex as a way to punish your man. It is not fair. Inside long-term romantic partnerships, our partner in a loyal, exclusive relationship is the only one who can give that sex to us. So holding it back actively from men is not healthy behavior. What is healthy behavior is to talk about why you're resentful. Talk about what is it that you need to open up with emotional intimacy so that you can open up to physical intimacy. You should never have sex with a man just for his sake or just for his comfort. Sex between a man and woman should always be based, and no woman should feel forced, pressurized, or pushed into sex.