Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Don't be needy around a man

23 Jun 2024 · 1 min

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In this YouTube segment, relationship coach Sami Wunder addresses women in long‑term partnerships who feel repeatedly let down by their male partners. She challenges the common belief that men fall in love when a woman needs them, arguing that excessive neediness can diminish a man's internal inspiration and attraction. Wunder prompts viewers to evaluate their current level of emotional attraction, communication quality, and the balance between healthy need and neediness. She emphasizes that while needing a partner is natural, crossing into neediness can erode connection and lead to conflict, urging women to shift from a needy stance to a more confident, self‑sufficient approach in their relationships.

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I know so many who are in long-term relationships have felt repeatedly disappointed by how their men have let them down because these women followed the principle, men fall in love when you need them. That is true. But how attracted is your boyfriend, your partner, your fiancé, or your husband to you in the relationship right now? What is your communication like? What is the emotional attraction like? You guys are arguing and fighting, but you keep needing him, wanting him, and he is not feeling that inspiration from within. It is so easy to go from needing a man, Which is a healthy thing. To getting needy around men.