Don't compare your man with other men!

And don't compare him with other men. When you feel angry, when you feel activated, when you feel charged, it's so tempting to tell a man, my ex used to be able to do this, but you don't do that. Have you seen the neighbor's husband? He's always doing X and Y, but you're never doing it. I know it's tempting, but do not do it. It's really insulting, especially if you have a healthy masculine man that you're dealing with, to have your partner or your wife tell you that, you know, that man is better than you. And it actually can instigate insecurity within men, and it can have greater repercussions in your relationship. No man likes it.