Don't fixing his problems
22 Jan 2024 · 0 min
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In this brief monologue, Sami Wunder explores a common relational belief that love and worth are demonstrated through usefulness. He argues that when we care for someone—especially a romantic partner—we often feel compelled to prove that love by being helpful, solving problems, and fixing things. This belief system equates being useful with being valuable and lovable, positioning problem‑solving as a primary way to express affection.
