Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Don't judge his relationship!

30 Apr 2025 · 1 min

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In this YouTube monologue, Sami Wunder advises viewers to avoid pursuing anyone who is already in a committed relationship. He emphasizes that it is not the speaker’s place to judge the quality of the existing partnership, but rather to recognize that pursuing a person who is still attached poses a risk of betrayal. Sami stresses that excuses about hidden feelings are irrelevant; the key is to maintain distance and keep interactions friendly until the individual is unequivocally single. The overarching message is to respect clear relational boundaries and to wait for a genuine, unencumbered opportunity before considering deeper involvement.

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If the person is in a relationship, it is not up to us to say, he's not so happy, he's not in love with his girlfriend or partner, she doesn't treat him well, that's why he's into me, that's why he's been hiding his feelings from me. The excuses don't matter. I am always wary of anybody who would pursue a connection within their current committed status with anybody else on the outside, because then they could do that to me as well, right? This is about understanding that some lines are never crossed. If the person who is hiding his feelings for you has a partner in their life, keep distance, keep it friendly, because this is not something you want to pursue, unless and until he is completely single.