Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Don't loan him money!

2 Nov 2024 · 0 min

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In this short YouTube monologue, Sami Wunder advises women not to financially support men they are dating. She argues that men should be financially independent and not ask for loans or money, especially early in a relationship. She acknowledges that in a healthy, long‑term, supportive partnership a woman may temporarily help a man who is actively working to become self‑sufficient, but cautions against becoming the primary financial provider against one’s own will. The overall message promotes financial autonomy for both partners and warns against unhealthy financial dependency.

In dating, never support a man financially. A man should be independent, take care of himself financially and monetarily. Never be asking you for money or loans. It's not healthy to lend and loan money to somebody you barely know or are just getting to know. In a long-term relationship, if it's a good, loving, supportive relationship, you can temporarily be supporting the man, knowing that he's doing the work to get back on his feet. Most healthy, empowered men never want to be a burden on the woman. Even in those long-term relationships, don't become the financial provider against your own will.