Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Embody your Feminine Energy around men

21 Jul 2024 · 1 min

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In this segment of her YouTube video, dating coach Sami Wunder explains why modern dating feels especially challenging for ambitious single women. She argues that many women approach dates from a masculine, action‑oriented stance—asking men out, initiating contact, and quickly revealing their feelings. According to Wunder, this masculine energy does not attract the type of men these women seek, namely provider, wealthy, and respectful partners who are drawn to a woman who embodies feminine energy. She suggests that women need to shift from masculine to feminine energy in order to become more appealing to such men and avoid the common pattern of men disappearing after early interactions.

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Reason number 5 modern dating feels hard for ambitious single women is because you have still to learn how to embody your feminine energy around men. There's so much masculine action, doing energy that is required from us women. When you show up on dates, you're still in your masculine energy and not in your feminine energy. The kind of man you want— a provider man, a wealthy man, a man who treats you well— that kind of man is not attracted to masculine energy. He is looking for a feminine embodied woman. It is so common showing up masculine energy, asking the guy out, calling men, texting men, revealing their feelings too quickly, and then they wonder, why does the guy disappear?