Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Emotional bonding in your relationship

1 Mar 2024 · 0 min

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In this YouTube segment, relationship coach Sami Wunder argues that, for men, sex is not tied to relationship commitment or future intentions. He claims that when women engage in sex early, men may disappear, ghost, or stop calling, which makes the woman appear needy. Consequently, he advises women to deliberately delay sexual intimacy, allowing men time to develop emotional bonds and get to know the woman beyond physical attraction, thereby fostering a healthier relationship dynamic.

You have to understand that sex in a man's world has nothing to do with a relationship with a woman, has nothing to do with the future with a woman. If he disappears or ghosts or doesn't call after sex, your needy girl starts to appear. It is in a woman's absolute best interest to delay sex, because that is going to give a man the time to bond with her emotionally and get to know her emotionally.