Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Empty promises and no action from him?

26 May 2025 · 1 min

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In this segment, Sami Wunder describes a common mixed‑signal behavior men exhibit in dating: they frequently make enthusiastic verbal promises about future meetings, dates, or drinks—using phrases like “we should do that someday” or “let’s catch a drink”—yet they never follow through. The contrast between generous, sweet words and a lack of concrete action creates confusion and stalls any forward progress in the relationship.

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A mixed signal that a man can give is when he is literally making promises to you, talking about the future, talking about seeing you in person, talking about taking you out on a date. We should do that someday. We should catch a drink. We should go out. We should meet up. But then again, it never ever happens, right? So that's another kind of mixed signal that men can give, where they can be very sweet and generous with their words, and they can also talk about the future, but nothing really happens. No action. Happens. No forward progress happens.