Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Ending up with the wrong man? 🤔

22 Nov 2023 · 1 min

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In this monologue, Sami Wunder explains a recurring belief that she can only focus on one man at a time. This belief leads her to quickly give the man in front of her a chance, often within an exclusive commitment where she becomes attached, becomes intimate, and offers "wife benefits." However, the partner frequently fails to treat her as she deserves, resulting in months or even years wasted on the wrong men. The content highlights this pattern of exclusive attachment without reciprocity and its costly emotional and temporal consequences.

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one single belief system, and that is, I cannot see more than one man at the same time. And so if I cannot see more than one man at the same time, what usually happens is I give the man in front of me who feels slightly good or good enough a chance. And usually I give this chance within an exclusive commitment where I start to get attached, I sleep with him, I give him wife benefits, but he doesn't show up and treat me the way I know I deserve to be treated. It leaves you with months wasted, or sometimes even years wasted on the wrong men.