Feminine Energy Marathon #Day 2

Woohoo! So I am live. Welcome to the Feminine Energy Marathon, day 2. Ta-da! Today we're talking about, do you have to change yourself in order to embody your feminine energy, in order to embody femininity in your love life, Especially as a strong, smart, successful woman, and as a high achiever. So if you're joining me live, like this video to show me love and say hi to me in the comments below. And while Facebook, YouTube gives you a notification that Sami is going live, let's just look at what we spoke about yesterday really quickly. So yesterday, we spoke about why introducing the education around the concept of polarity in your love life, in your romantic relationships, is actually going to be the game-changing concept that is going to completely revolutionize the way you look at men, the way you look at dating, the way you look at Love. Okay. And we spoke about how polarity is the understanding that based on what I want to attract— so I'm gonna shift my view a little bit because I have my entire family over, which is wonderful, but that also means there's a lot of action at home happening in the background. So yeah, this is a better view from our winter garden. Okay, so we were talking about like how polarity empowers you to understand that if you are looking to attract a certain type of man, if you're looking to attract an empowered masculine man who is into you, excited about you, generous towards you, cherishes you, adores you, seeing a smile on your face is important for him, then you want to show up in your embodied feminine energy, your empowered embodied feminine energy in your dating interactions and in your marriage or relationship. Now, how to do that is something we teach you inside Elevate, which is my 6-month live group coaching program, and the enrollment for it is closing next week. So type contact me in the comments if you would love to hear more about Elevate, or if you want to speak speak to a team member about Elevate and whether it is the right fit for you or not. So let's today dive into, do you have to change yourself to embody your feminine energy? Now, I'm going to be very honest with all of you, as I always like to be. When I started studying about relationships, there was a lot of messaging in the world of relationships, where people were saying that a man should love me for who I am and accept me as I am. So who has this belief that you should be loved for who you are, and you should be accepted as you are in a romantic equation and in your marriage or in your relationship? So who has this belief system? If you have this belief system, let me know in the comments by saying yes. And it doesn't matter if you're watching this live or on replay. I love to hear from you ladies. So say yes if you have this belief system somewhere subconsciously that you shouldn't have to change yourself in order to have a man in your life, and you shouldn't have to change yourself in order to have a happy, healthy relationship. So for those of you who are saying yes right now, I want you to know I 100% get you, understand you, see you, and resonate with you. Because this is exactly how I used to think when I first started studying romantic relationships. And then here's the transformation that happened inside of me as I started to study romantic relationships more and more and more. So I don't know how many of you are new in my world right now, how many of you have been in my world for years, but my short story is that I'm a trained economist. And I have a master's in public policy, and I ditched my career in international development so that I could become a love coach for high-achieving women. And that transition in my career happened because I was personally struggling with men a lot, and I couldn't understand why, as a good-hearted, hardworking, intelligent, sensitive, woman, I couldn't figure things out with men, why things in my love life were not working out for me. So that's what got me studying about love, men, feminine energy, polarity, romantic relationships. And I've always been an A student. So, you know, I've come from India's top college of economics and commerce and, you know, won a gold medal in my hardest year of studies. And, you know, I was in the top 10% here in in Germany, in my master's cohort. And so I've always been the kind of person, like, if I decide to understand something, I do it. And I, based on my own personal struggles with men, decided to understand what is the key to having successful, fulfilling, happy romantic relationships for intelligent, smart, successful women. So that's how I got into this work. And up until this point, when I started studying about what makes romance work between man and a woman, I had exactly this resistance, which was, why are they telling me all these things about feminine energy, and how to communicate, and how to draw boundaries? Shouldn't I just be able to attract an amazing relationship by being who I am? And the answer is no. For so many of us who have not done the work, who have no education in what it takes to create a healthy romantic relationship, the statistics will tell you that most of us will not only struggle in our love lives, we will also often experience heartbreak. We will often experience, you know, a collapse of our relationship. We will experience separation, divorce, and not because it's our fault. But because most of us don't have healthy role models in love. I don't know about you, and I love my parents, and they're here in my home right now, love them to bits, but they were not the best role models when it came to modeling what healthy romantic love looks like. And what I have seen with all of my clients almost majority of my clients is that we women, if we do not have examples and demonstrations of what healthy love looks like, or what even in our careers, what healthy financial success looks like, or what healthy career success looks like, if we don't have role models who are modeling that to us, it can feel so hard and so inaccessible to so many of us. Simply because it's not been demonstrated to us. So who here can resonate with this, that if you do not have the right role models, you cannot be hard on yourself if things don't just automatically work out for you? It's not your fault because you don't have the right role models and nobody gave you the blueprint of what healthy love looks like. Nobody gave you the blueprint. And so, when I started studying what makes a romantic relationship successful, and what makes it work, I recognized that I had to step out of this conversation of, I don't want to change myself, and I don't want— like, I want a man to love me the way I am. Because who I was being when I was interacting with men, Wasn't my healthiest, most powerful, most beautiful self. It was actually a masculine mask, and it was actually a series of behaviors and ways of relating that I had learned from my lack of role models around me when it comes to healthy love. And I was taking all that baggage with me into my interactions with men, into you know the way I was dating, and I was hoping that. But that is the real me, and that is what men are going to fall for, and that is what is going to give me the most amazing relationship. Now, who's having a lightbulb moment right now? Who can resonate with this? Who can resonate with the fact that all you've seen around you is, you know, broken marriages, broken relationships? Unhappy single friends who give you a lot of advice that doesn't really help you. And somehow, even though we are all experiencing the evidence of our lack of success, we still feel like there's nothing we should change within ourselves. We should just be loved and accepted for who we are. So here's my invitation. When you think about, do I have to change myself in order to embody feminine energy? I invite you to think about, am I really being my true and authentic self, or in the way I'm showing up, or is it actually masks of strength, masks of guardedness, masks of triggers, emotional reactivity that I am wearing, and that I'm showing up in, and that I am claiming a man needs to accept me for who I am, while I'm still wearing all these masks of guardedness, masculine energy, struggling with vulnerability, and having huge emotionally reactive triggers In a relationship? Who am I really showing up as? And so, this is my big reframe for all of you who feel this resistance to changing, and who feel like, you know, a man should love me for who I am. Yes, a man should love you for who you are, but are you really being who you are? Because feminine energy is about stripping off all those masks. It's about taking away all that masculinity that makes you feel safe, you know, all that doing, all that action, all that go, go, go, go energy, control. Doing all of that makes you feel safe, and that's why you keep doing it. But is it who you truly are? Is it the most authentic expression of your heart space? Is it the most authentic expression of your emotional state? Is it who you really are? Because— and here's the beautiful thing— when you do the work of feminine energy embodiment, and you stop all the doing and you start the being, that is when your true self shines through. And so doing the work is not really about changing yourself. Doing the inner work is about becoming and showing and expressing your truest self. When all the masks that you're wearing, all the guardedness, all the walls that we have built over the years because of our bad experiences with men, all of that is stripped away and the true you can finally emerge. How's that feeling? Who is feeling amazed right now? If you're feeling amazed right now and this This is making sense, then write amazed in the comments. Doesn't matter whether you're watching this live or you're doing this on replay. Just want to hear from you. Like, do you understand that embodying your feminine energy in dating, embodying your feminine energy in your marriage, in your relationship, is not about changing yourself, my love? It's about becoming more of who you truly are. It's becoming more of who you truly are, what Mother Nature made you as. When Mother Nature made you a woman, when you were born a female child, you naturally had feminine energy within you. You were born with feminine power within you. And doing this work is about returning to source. It's about returning to the inherent power within you as a woman. It's not about changing yourself. It's actually about letting go of everything that society has taught you that you need to be and do and actually come back to feeling whole and powerful in your being. Feeling whole and powerful in your worthiness, not by doing more and taking action and controlling men and controlling your man and operating from the ego space, but feminine energy work. When you are in the container of a good mentor, a good coach, it's really about coming back into your power. And so, do you want to change yourself? No. Do you want to go back to who you truly are? Yes. And if that requires you to do the inner work, then I believe the inner work is totally worth it. Now, of course, a lot of you who are watching this right now, whether you're doing this live or you're doing this on replay, you may think that you already know about Feminine Energy, right? I think a lot of the smart, successful women that we work with inside Elevate, they tell us, you know, I understand the concept, I know what leaning back is about. And yet, the reason why coaching, live coaching especially, that we give you inside Elevate is so powerful, is because it is one thing to understand something intellectually, which I'm sure a lot of you do, Yeah, but it's a totally different thing to be able to live it, embody it, and do it in a way that is actually effective and gives you results. Yeah, and this is the gap we help you fill inside Elevate. Okay, we know that you know the basics of feminine energy, but how many of you, if you're honest with yourself, It needs you to be extremely honest with yourself, right? How many of you are actually embodying that energy? And you're embodying it in a way that you're actually experiencing the magic of how you're a magnet, and you just sort of pull men to you, pull high-quality men to you. And you can see that they want to do all they can and surrender to your magical femininity. Because if that's not happening, then there is that implementation gap there. There is that intellectual understanding of the concept, but it's not being lived in real life. And living that thing, living that concept in your real life is where the magic happens. It is where the big results come from. These hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of success stories that you see on our social media, on our emails. They come from the fact that, you know, our clients inside Elevate, through the personalized coaching support, they get that individual attention where we help them identify their blind spots and tweak their particular processes, whether they're, you know, in the singles cohort or they're in the relationships cohort. And that is the factor that really exponentially, you know, gives them so much faster results than if they were to be trying to do this by themselves. And so for everybody who's watching this live or on replay, my invitation today to you is to go into your heart space and be humble about the fact that if you are not getting the results you desire in your love life, which looks like if you're single and you are having a hard time dating, or you are meeting men, but it's not going beyond the first date, or if it is going beyond the first date, something happens around the 3-month mark and the men keep fizzling out on you, or you keep rotating in these relationships that never really lead to forever commitment. And that is what your heart desires, which is like this. Solid, committed partnership. Or if you are in a relationship or you're married and you've been doing all this couples counseling and therapy for years— I mean, I have a lot of respect for what my peers do, but let's just face it that, you know, in our records with our clients, um, we just have like a phenomenal feedback where people tell us, women tell us, you know, I've been to therapy for 10 years and nothing helped me so radically like Elevate did, or, you know, nothing helped to, you know, shift my relationship as radically and powerfully as Elevate did. So I think if you have tried different modalities but you are not where you want to be, whether you're dating or you're in a relationship or married, then I would love to invite you to, you know, sit with yourself today and just admit this to yourself without judging yourself. Because I believe that all great transformation and change happens when we are able to admit to ourselves that, yes, I am not where I want to be. And maybe I can do this alone. I mean, I like to believe in my clients. I don't think they're dumb. I think they're very, very smart, very, very capable. And if they were not to take our help, they'd probably succeed in the next 10 years anyway. What we help you do is reduce the timeline of those 10 years into a year, a year and a half. And that is how we help you collapse the timeline of your results, because you just move so much faster with the education we give you, with the support that we give you. And so today, the invitation is to go back from this livestream, and I'm going to wrap up in just 2 minutes, and ask yourself, am I really where I want to be? And am I really being treated in the way that my soul knows I deserve to be treated? And if I am not where I want to be, then what am I doing about it? Because all the overthinking and all the brooding and all the act, you know, anything that is not involving action will not make you move forward. The number one difference between people who get results and people who don't are that the ones who get results take action. So today, the invitation is to admit to yourself if there is a desire that you have in your love life where you are not feeling fulfilled, and where you know you need support. And when that realization dawns, I would like you to type in the comments, contact me. So we just have less than a week to go for Elevate to close its doors, and the doors closed tightly, which means that once Elevate starts, we do not accept new clients. And we like to focus in servicing and supporting the clients who have said yes to themselves. So now is the time for you to act. Say contact me in the comments. And what will happen next is that a trained coach from my team will then reach out to you, send you an email, or send you a message on Messenger or wherever you've said contact me. And they will help you, you know, understand what Elevate involves and see if it is the right fit for you or not. Now, if you have not taken action, this is the time to really wake up. You have a desire, and the solution for that desire is sitting in front of you. And the only thing that is separating you from actually having what you desire is your own action. Because trust me, me and my team, we're 100% in. We have a 65% client retention rate inside Elevate. which means that once women enter the container, they love the support so much, they feel so good, so safe, so heard, so seen, so supported, they don't want to leave it. So they continue the journey with us. So we've had clients who've gone from, you know, the singles group, spent 2 rounds in the singles group, attracted a great guy within a year, got engaged, moved to the relationships group. Now they're hanging out there and they're becoming mothers and, you know, their whole life has sort of come together in the last 1 or 2 years of being in the Wunderworld. And I just want to impress upon you that it may feel like these women are more special than you, but they're not. Trust me, they're not. Of course, I work with some celebrities that I cannot name. I sign non-disclosure agreements. I also work with 7-figure, multi-7-figure, 8-figure entrepreneurs. But the majority of my clients are everyday professional women. They are doctors, They're engineers. They are police officers. They are school teachers. And the only thing that makes them special and that you see them being on our success stories is because they took action. They said, contact me. And they were ready to bet on themselves. And so you will have our 100% from our side. We will give you everything you need inside Elevate. You have a 7-module curriculum inside Elevate that you can all, when you click on the sales page, you can go read it. If you don't, if you've not seen the sales page, you know, you'll probably find it in the video description, in the comments, or you just, you know, say contact me and we will send you the sales page. But you can read the entire 7-step process that we take you through. But that's just not it. You know, you also get inside Elevate the personalized coaching. So even though it's a group setting, our coaches, you know, they spend time getting to know you and they care. And you get weekly live coaching calls. So you get, you know, you're gonna start with the intention setting call with me straight away on 1st October. Woohoo! I'm so excited for it. I'm already preparing for it and like feeling into it. And then you're going to get like a content anchoring call where my coaches are gonna like, you know, give you the core reminders of the module that you've just worked on or listened to. And then you will have a hands-on implementation call with my amazing senior trained coach, Natalie Dedmon. She also supports our Platinum-level clients, which are our private clients. And there she teaches you how to apply this information to your real life, how to apply these tools, how to make feminine energy understandable and graspable so that you can actually go on dates and implement it. And you can actually turn a vague concept into a concept that you can actually embody and live in. And then you have a Q&A call with me. Ta-da! And on some special occasions, you'll see me show up in the Facebook group, do live streams for you, and explain, give some coaching, just like I'm doing right now. Okay? So it is a very, very close, intimate community, and there is just so much love and support inside Elevate. And for those of you who who are considering joining Elevate but have been sitting on the fence, remember, action. Action is where the transformation lies. No transformation happens by, you know, just watching YouTube videos or livestreams, as much as they are, you know, educating you in a soft way. The truth is, if you're looking for a very specific result and you have a very specific desire, you need to be in a coaching container of experts, of a community of women that have your back, that have all the same goals and that are moving together in the same direction. So I walk my talk. I am supported by really powerful women. I have mentors who support me. And this is why I believe like it's so important that women surround themselves with other women who want the same things. And there is magic in that. There is momentum in that. And I can easily say that Elevate is one of the most diverse International, global, and safe and loving communities of women online. Like, safety is so important. I know the work we do is so sensitive and so precious, and safety for my clients and everybody feeling safe and loved in the group, in the community, is super duper important. So the investment in Elevate is $6,666. Dollars or euros. You can pay in either currency, whatever works for you. But because we are in launch mode right now and we're welcoming new clients into our world, you get a solid discount of 1,111. So you can come in for just €5,555. So you get an amazing discount and you can come in for €5,555. You can do a split pay of €2,700, $877 USD or euros now and pay the rest next month. You can also do $2,000 now, pay $850 the next 5 months. You can all— like, there are so many permutations and combinations of how our clients are paying. But I think the bottom line is, if this is calling you, if you know it's your time, then it's really time to give yourself permission and to take action and to prioritize this aspect of your life. I know so many times women tell me, Sami, I'm a busy woman. Will I have the time? And I can only tell you, like, there are so many busy women inside Elevate. I don't think there's anybody there that is not busy. Like, I work with the busy client, and my only recommendation is, like, if love is important to you, if, you know, having a happy marriage, happy relationship is important to you, then it's not about how will I make time? It's about deciding to make the time. And that is the power of the high-achieving career-minded women I work with, that whenever they decide something is important for them, they make the time for it. But usually when people ask, what is the time commitment? I can see Katie is asking us, what is the time commitment? I think if you want to make it to the calls, You can, you know, invest 1 hour a week and listening to the modules is another hour a week. And if you can just like make that time, you're going to be so good. Like if you can just make 2 hours a week. And sometimes, you know, women who are busy, because we work with busy women, they have told us that they tend to listen to the recordings and to the curriculum while they're in the gym, running on the treadmill, watching Sami videos. Or, you know, when they're driving or when they're washing the dishes and putting dishes in the dishwasher. So this is not about, you know, will there be enough time? This is about understanding that if something is important to you, you need to make it a priority. You need to step up in your empowered masculine energy and make it happen for yourself. And usually what I have noticed is that women love What's Inside Elevate so much, they usually spend even more time than they— than the 2 hours. Not because somebody forced them to or asked them to, but because it feels good. And that's what feminine energy is about. It's about allowing ourselves to have the experiences that nourish us and feel good, even if in the masculine world they're not recognized, or even if in the masculine world, you know, business is— it is said that business is more important than love. But I can only say that, you know, for me, I'm about women having it all. And women understanding that life is, you know, the wheel of life is not just one thing. It's not just work. It's not just money. It is also not just love. It is work, money, family, love, and health. And so all of these things are important. And I believe that, you know, the more successful I become, the more I want other women to have love because— I think that's, that's why we're here, and that's what really, really matters. And so, um, if Elevate has been calling you, if you've been feeling the pull, if you've been feeling that, you know, call to the program, then now is the time to take action. I wouldn't delay any further. Say contact me in the comments and my team will get back to you. And I am super duper excited to meet you all tomorrow at the same time, and we are Talking about why letting a man lead in dating, why letting a man lead in the marriage, in the relationship, is actually so much more powerful than being the masculine leader in your relationship. So very much hope to see you tomorrow. Thank you for joining me. I love you. Big love. Thank you. Bye.