Finding Closure: How to Get Over a Man Who Doesn't Value You!

Good morning, good afternoon, good evening, whichever part of the world you're joining me from. This is Sami Wunder checking in live, dating and relationship coach for the high-achieving career woman who is sick and tired of struggling with men and in dating, and is ready to bring in her dream relationship and her dream man in her life right now. Today, ladies, we are going to be talking about the situation where you find yourself emotionally invested in a man who isn't giving to you the relationship that you desire. But before we get into the content, which I am really excited to present to you today, let's get some house rules going in here. Housekeeping: if you are watching this livestream, you have to like it and you have to say, Hi Sami, in the comments below, so that I know you are participating. It is so important in a community that we don't just be lookers watching silently in the background, but we are active participants. So I want to hear from you, and if you're watching live or you're watching the replay, make sure you are saying hi in the comments below. And I am so excited because this topic today that I'm gonna be talking to you about is something that is very common for a lot of women, where, you know, we're seeing this man and we are— we like him, he feels good, and yet he is not giving us the relationship we desire. We desire more time from him. We desire to see him more often. We desire more dates from him. We desire more commitment from him, right? So if you've been in this place, today's livestream is the livestream for you. Hello everyone who's joining in. Again, make sure you say hi. Make sure you leave a comment. Make sure you send some hearts. I love hearts. Make sure you do all of that because that's what makes a community of Divas together and growing together and loving each other and supporting Supporting each other. So if you're a silent lurker in the background who never says anything, this is the livestream where you show yourself. This is the livestream where you say hi and share about your situation so that we can help you. All right. And ladies, don't forget, for those lucky 10 women who will be joining me in the Single to Engaged Mastermind, my intensive mastermind, for the next 5 months that is now enrolling. Make sure you have checked out the sales page and make sure if it is what you want, to go from single to engaged this year, then you are filling the application because the discount of $5K on the $15K price is going to disappear on the 1st of April. We already have spots filling in. We already have a lot of motivated women applying, so make sure you don't miss that out if you are serious about going Going all the way from single to engaged, because that's what we're here about. We're about the big-ticket items. We're not about just getting a date or just getting a man. We're about the big-ticket items. Right? So let's talk about how to manage your emotional investment in a man that is not giving you the relationship you desire. So what does this look like? In reality, it looks like— this situation has the following symptoms. Number 1, the dates feel great. That's why you want him. When you are on a live date with him, it feels great. The chemistry is electric, the connection feels amazing, and it feels like he's the one for you and you're the one for him. However, once the date is over, that's when the anxiety starts, because you don't hear from him often, you don't get as much attention as you think you would get from a man who is into you, who likes you, who likes you as much as you like him. You also find that, you know, he's inconsistent with his communication. He could also be a classic hot and cold man, right? There can be so many variations of the same situation. But the bottom line is, You want more, and you like him, you really like him, and you want him to give you more time, you want him to give you more attention, you want him to call you more, you want him to plan more dates, you want him to be more romantic, maybe, right? So at various levels, it's just the same thing. It's about you wanting more than what he is delivering. So if you have been in such a situation, firstly, I want you to comment, yes, Sami, this resonates. Yes, Sami, I've been there. Or yes, Sami, I am in this situation right now. Yes, Sami, I've been there. Or yes, Sami, I am in this situation right now. So that I know which of my Divas are going through this struggle right now in their lives. And remember, vulnerability is a really powerful thing that we really encourage on this group. So don't be afraid, don't be shy. Whatever we share in this group stays here. It's a very safe and confidential space. So share if you are in this situation so that we know that this is going to help you. Okay, so now that we know what the symptoms of the situation look like, one of the first things I want want to do is to help you understand what's really going on here. What is going on in this situation where you want more from a man and the dates with him feel great, but then in between the dates, the time is long, maybe you don't see him that often, the communication is not good, the communication is not consistent, and when you see him, it's amazing, but then maybe he doesn't plan another date for 2 weeks, 3 weeks, sometimes even 4 weeks. You like him, you want more, right? That is the situation. A lot of you are saying, Tamika, Laurie, May, everyone's saying they relate with this, they are in the situation right now. Wonderful! Keep it coming, ladies. I want to hear from you. This is really important to me, that this is helping you and that you are relating with this. The first thing we want to do here is to understand what's going on. Now, when you are in this situation, or in a situation like this right now or in the past, what I want you to do is to imagine taking a big energetic step back from this man. Just taking a big energetic step back from this man, taking a big energetic step back from this situation, and just observing yourself and him objectively. Because when we are in a situation like this, it can feel really powerful to us, it can feel really enticing to us, But in order for you to understand what is really going on here and how to turn it around, you wanna be able to take a step back and look at it with objective eyes, with non-emotional eyes. So you wanna imagine taking a huge step back, and just like I would look at your situation objectively as an expert, you wanna be able to step back and look at yourself objectively in this situation. And here's what's happening— 2 important things. The first thing that's happening, and that I want you to realize and observe and identify, is that you and him are not on the same page. So if you're watching this, live or replay, say to yourself, I and the man I'm seeing, I or the man I think I'm in love with, are not on the same page. Because when a man and a woman are on the same page, There is nothing like this disturbance or this craving from your side, as a woman, that you want to see him more, that you want to call him, like, have him call you more, that you want to get more attention from him, simply because he's so into you. He's so into you that he will just stay in your life and he's not going to go away. You're never going to have these feelings of insecurity. So the fact that you are having these feelings of insecurity, the fact that you constantly crave more and want more is direct evidence of the fact that you and him are not on the same page. You can only recognize this, and you can only admit this, and you can only be honest about this with yourself once you are ready to step back and see the situation for what it truly is versus what your emotions are trying to tell you. That's the first thing you want to understand here. You and him are not on the same page. And the second thing you want to understand here is that the part of you that craves this man and wants more from him is the part of you that still doesn't think that it is the prize in love. What do I mean by it is the prize in love? So a lot of you here on the community are newbies. Maybe you've done some of my programs, or maybe you haven't even started with any of the programs, so I'll quickly explain what it means to be the prize in love. Being the prize in love means that the man in front of us, no matter what an amazing status he has in life, no matter what an amazing job he has in life, no matter how much money he makes, no matter how tall he is, how handsome he is, he is never the catch. He is never the prize in love. In love and in a romantic situation, we are always the prize as women, just by the fact that we are women, right? So if you are the prize, and if you are the golden trophy a man wants to win, and you find yourself in a situation where you are craving more from him, then this is telling me that deep down, energetically, inside, in this equation with this man, you are not feeling like the prize. In fact, you are looking at him, and you are considering him to be the prize. Now, this is an energetic shift. This is an energetic equation you never ever want to have with a man, because the minute you start to look at a man as the prize energetically, and that's why you want more from him, you're craving more, you want more, you put him up on a pedestal. When you put up a man on a pedestal, the only energy he can have towards you is one of looking down at you. Right. He's up there on the pedestal, And you are down there looking at him with mercy and with almost a begging energy, give me more, give me more, give me more. Right? Now, I know this can be harsh to hear. I know this can be painful to hear. I know this hurts, right? And I know because I have been in that situation myself. I have been the woman who has put men up on a pedestal, and I can tell you from my own heartbreak and my own experience, experiences that it never ever works. It never ever works. So I want you to notice this energy about yourself. You have to be very honest with yourself. You have to be almost harshly honest with yourself, and you have to see if you are the woman who is considering the man as the prize. So now, when you are able to look at this situation so objectively, number 1, you're not on the same page as he is. You're probably ahead of him, and he's behind you in the relationship equation. The second thing is, you are treating him as the prize, not yourself as the prize. When these 2 things are happening, man and woman not on the same page, and the woman looking up to the man as the prize, here are the 3 most common ways women respond to this situation. Here are the 3 most common ways women respond to this situation. Number 1, and none of these situations will work, but if you are in this situation, I'm sure you've tried doing one of these 3 things before. Say, yes, I have done that, in the comments if you can relate with it, and share with us if this is helping you. If you're just joining us live or you are watching the replay, make sure to say hi and make sure to say this is helping you. We are right now talking about the 3 ways in which women respond to the situation where they want more from a man, and where they have put him up on the pedestal, and they are forgetting that they are the prize in love. The first way women respond is a very common reaction that I find among my clients, which is, they get angry, and they get resentful, and they start to have the talk with the man. Instead of just seeing that his energy is not coming towards you, Instead of just being observing about the fact that his energy is not coming towards you, what we start to do is we start to get in a reactive mode, and we complain, and we bring up the relationship talk, and we we start to say how come you're not calling me? How come you're not texting me? And I want to hear more from you. And da da da da da da da. So if you've done that, be honest. Share with us. Yes, Sammy, I relate with this. Okay, because I know I've done that. I know I've done that. I did not want to admit to the fact that his energy was not coming towards me. I just had this really entitled expectation energy, where I just say, how come? How come you're not doing this? How come you're not calling me anymore? How come you're not texting me anymore? That's the first thing that women do. Now, the second thing that women do, and this is where it's again sad, We get into chasing mode. Now, so many of us think it's just— it's not gonna harm. I've been seeing him for the last 6 months, even though I've just seen him twice in the last 6 months, right? It won't harm me if I send him a text. It won't harm me if I send him, you know, give him a call and just ask him what he's doing. And a lot of us get into that chasing energy. A lot of us get into that masculine energy mode. Right? And again, it doesn't help. Why doesn't it help? It's because it feels like chasing to him. He can see it. He can see it. We don't want to feel our feelings. We don't want to see that we are feeling afraid of losing the man. We don't feel like we're not feeling respected, we're not feeling cherished. And so all we do is fear-based control, which is call him, text him, chase him till he remembers that we exist. It's very low-value behavior, but in the moment, we try to tell ourselves that it's okay, you know, just one call is not gonna harm us, just one text is not gonna harm us. So all the newbie divas who are here and watching, please make sure that you go grab my programs. You will find them on samiwunder.com. It is really important that you learn the skills skills of what works with men and what doesn't work with men. Because otherwise, if you really don't learn the skills in a more systematic manner and you stop here on this livestream, yeah, there will be 200 other things that you're not aware of right now that you might be doing in your relationships or with men that are not serving you. So I highly encourage you to go download the programs. They are highly affordable, very, very affordable programs, and I really want you to Start your journey of learning the skills that work in love. That's number 2. You know what? The 3rd one is what makes me the saddest in this situation. We had number 1 was, women get angry and start the talk about, why aren't you calling me more? Why aren't you texting me more? The 2nd one is, women start to chase themselves. They start to chase the man. And the third one is— and this is the saddest one for me, to be very honest, from a Diva perspective— we accept the status quo for what it is, and we close our hearts to all other men, and this man becomes the sole energetic focus of our life, and we keep accepting crumbs from him. So, I have had clients in the past who have come to me, and I've asked them, so how many times have you seen this man in the last 2 years, and it's like 6 times, 7 times. But the woman is so emotionally invested. She's hardly seen him, but she's so emotionally invested in having him in her life that she doesn't even see that she's settling for crumbs. What are crumbs? They are little breadcrumbs of attention, little call here and there, a date once a month. That's what the woman is settling for, and she doesn't even realize that. Right? She doesn't even realize that she's wasting her most important marriageable years. Her time is precious, and her, you know, she wants to have children, she wants to have marriage, she wants to have a family, and she's busy wasting her time on a man who is not committed to her, because if he was committed to her, he would show her. without a doubt, that's what masculine men do. They ask you out, they see you, they make you happy, right? So those are your childbearing years, those are your years for marriage, your prime years, and we are busy wasting them on a man who just wouldn't give it to us. I find so many women stuck here in this zone, and this is what makes me the saddest. This is something, you know, that is why A high energetic intensive experience like the Single to Engaged Mastermind is so critical and so amazing for women who are on those, you know, 30+, 35+ age bracket, where they want to bring in the man and they are not able to do that without support, simply because they're feeling so stuck. So if you're a woman who is in this zone and you know you're serious about bringing in your love, this year, then absolutely reach out and apply for the Mastermind. It's an amazing experience, life-transforming, and over 95 of my clients have gotten engaged in the last 2 years alone, so we know that the process I teach works. Now, let's come back to the point. The 3rd one, the saddest situation: women settle for breadcrumbs of attention from men. They forget their desire for the whole meal. They forget their desire that they deserve more. They forget that they are worthy of a man's full attention, respect, commitment, love, and they just focus on this one man who is hardly giving them anything except breadcrumbs, and they accept it as status quo, and then nothing changes. This can happen for years and years and years. Sometimes clients are stuck 4 years, 5 years, 7 years, 10 years. It happens. It happens if you're in that unaware space. and you forget your bigger goals, it's so easy to fall into this trap. Those are the 3 things that women do, the most common reactions women have to this situation. As you can imagine, none of those 3 situations work. Why don't they work? Because the first one, where you start to talk to a man about why he should send you more texts or why he should call you more, you look really desperate. You look really, really desperate. Desperate, and that's not attractive energy. The second one, where you start chasing him, oh my God, that's what kills attraction off straight away, right? Men have hunting instinct themselves, and when a woman gets into this hunter instinct, it's just totally masculine energy meets masculine energy, and it's just not attractive at all. The third one doesn't work, where you are settling for crumbs, and you're just letting things drag on, and never speaking up and never really, you know, you're being completely okay with the status quo, that's when he starts to look at you as cheap and convenient. Convenient, a convenient woman is a woman who never has any issue. You can fish her out whatever you want and she's always happy because she's too afraid of losing you, she's too afraid of rocking the boat. So a convenient woman never has an issue with a man. And when you are in that zone of accepting breadcrumbs from a man, and you never say anything, or you never do anything about it, you're convenient. And convenient is convenient. It's not attractive. It's not wife material. It's not high value. And it's never, ever— I have never, ever heard that a convenient woman is the woman who gets the ring, simply because men don't want convenient. A lifetime partner. Men want the best woman as the lifetime partner. They want a diva, they want a queen, they want a woman who values herself. When you're accepting breadcrumbs, the vibe you're giving to a man is, I don't think I'm valuable. I don't think I matter. I don't think my needs matter. That's the vibe you're giving to him. It is really sad. It's supremely sad, but I see so many beautiful, amazing, strong, successful women fall into this trap when it comes to their romantic relationships. These women can get everything done at the workplace. They're really good at making business deals, and they're really good at building their houses, and amassing wealth, and bringing up their children. But when it comes to interacting with men, so many amazing women do not give out high-value signals to men, and they accept breadcrumbs from men, and that they They don't understand that this convenient woman tag or this convenient woman vibe that they're giving to men is never ever going to get them to the altar, simply because convenient is not attractive, convenient is not expensive. Those are the 3 reactions. I recapped them for you and I showed you that's what most women do. That's not what Wounded Divas do, but that's what most women do, and that's where we don't want to be. So, how do we turn this around, right? How do we turn this around? Now, as always, my answers are never going to be about manipulating the man, because my work is not about manipulating the man, because manipulation is a very cheap tactic, and it can give you an instant result, a short-term result, but it will not create that deep gut-level attraction in a man that he needs to feel in order to feel pulled towards you, In order to give you the ring, in order to give you the respect and love of a wife in his life. Right? So short-term manipulation is just short-term tactics that will probably give you one date more with him or one quick call from him. So you have a lot of relationship coaches and programs out there, get him to text you more and get him to call you more, and that is all really temporary, right? Because he calls you once, he calls you twice, and then How you show up on the dates is, again, where the attraction falls off. You're busy buying 200 more relationship programs on how to make him call me more the second time, or how to make him call me more the third time. All superficial stuff, because men can smell through insecurity. Men can smell through manipulation. What I am going to ask you to do is the higher road, the higher Diva road. And I can tell you, it works, so you want to listen closely. The first thing you want to do here, it has nothing to do with the man, it has everything to do with yourself. Get your focus off him. I know you don't want to hear this. I know the part of you that wants this man just wants to get a quick fix on how to get his attention, but I can tell you, that every strategy you use to get his attention is bouncing against you. It's working against you because he can feel the energy behind your strategies. He can feel that all of this that you're doing is just focused to get his attention back on you, and it just won't work. It especially won't work with high-value men. It especially won't work with men who who can see through this kind of stuff. So your biggest and hardest tip number 1 is to get your focus off him. The way I suggest to do this is out of sight, out of mind. If he is not in front of you and if he's not on the phone with you, he does not exist. He does not exist. That is where you need to fill up your life with things you like. You need to fill up your life with High-value activities, you know, friends, yoga, exercise, taking care of yourself, coming to Sami Wunder Retreats. By the way, we still have places left, spots to fill for our Luxury Retreat in Ibiza happening from the 25th of May to the 28th of May, and this is going to be a lot of fun. We're not just doing love coaching, we're also doing amazing career transition coaching. A lot of women I know, strong, successful women, if you have free days from the 25th of May to the 28th of May, definitely reach out to us. We're going to Ibiza! We're going to Ibiza, like the Wenger boys. Alright, girls, so get your focus off him. He is not the focus of your life. Healthy men do not want to be the center of attention of a woman's life. We want to be the center of attention of a man's life, but that's because we're women. Healthy masculine men do not want to be the center of attention of a woman's life. And the way you understand this, the way you implement this, is by not making him the center of attention of your life, not making him the center of your universe, By getting your focus off him, by filling your life with things that enrich you, that make you happy. Because guess what? We, when we're really busy focusing on men and he's not giving us what we want, what happens is our vibe keeps going down and down and down and down and down, and we become sadder, and we are more in pain. It hurts, and everything feels awful. And then somehow, we think that the man is going to get attracted to this. Do you really think, when you are in that state, where you are not valuing yourself, you're not valuing your happiness, you're putting all your— placing all your cards in one basket, placing all your eggs in one basket, focusing entirely on this man, do you think the vibe you emanate from that space is attractive to the man? No. Really think about it. Ask yourself, the energy that I'm carrying when I'm focusing on him so much and I'm needing all this stuff from him, is this energy attractive to a man? And of course, you have to step out of yourself again. You have to look at yourself objectively, and you have to be able to be brave enough to ask yourself this question. When I'm being all sad and miserable and constantly complaining and constantly not able to enjoy anything in my life because I want more from this man, I want more from this man, I want more from this man. What is the energy you are carrying? And do you think, from a very loving, self-loving place— yeah, I'm also saying this from a very loving place, right? Tough love, but loving. Do you think this energy is attractive to a man? It's not. It's really easy to see it's not, right? So whether it's an ex, or whether it's someone you like and who's not giving you what you want, what is really clear, girls, is that it's not going to work if you stay in misery, and if you stay focused on him, and if all your life and thoughts and energy is going to him and all about him. This is the first, and I would say, one of the most important things a woman can do, is to get her focus off the man, because when she's hyper-focused on the man, when she's laser-focused on the man, Her energy is down. Her energy is, you know, I'm down the pedestal, man is up on the pedestal, and it's simply not attractive to the man at all. Right? So that's tip number 1, get your focus off him. The second tip, and again, as I said, this works, this has changed lives, but of course, you have to be willing to feel better. If you are in a space where you are Not willing to let go of your pain, that's a different space, right? Nobody can help you there. But if you are a woman who is willing to let go of her pain, who actually wants to feel better in life, and that's why she's listening to this advice, then tip number 2 is going to do wonders for you. Open your heart to other men. No matter how difficult it feels, no matter how challenging it feels, Go out there and open your heart to other men, because it is only by opening your heart to other men that you will be once again reminded of how desirable you are, how amazing you are, what men around you are willing to give you, because you have forgotten all of that, right? In your interactions with this one man, which you have made the focus of your life, and where you don't feel good, but you're still keep holding on to him, you have forgotten that you are the prize in love. When you open your heart to other men and you see the kind of treatment other men give you, and they give you compliments, they bring you chocolates and flowers and take you out on dates, that is going to slowly heal that part of you that does not feel like The prize enough in love. It's deep stuff. I'm gonna repeat it. So when you go out and you open your heart to other men who are going to treat you well, who are going to treat you with kindness and treat you— make you feel special, that part of you, that part of you that doesn't love yourself, that is attached to that man who doesn't love you, that part is going to start healing. It's going to start healing. Yeah? When it receives this love, when it receives attention from other good men, it's going to see its value. And over time, what we want from you is that either this man who is not giving you what you desire is going to see that you've forgotten all about him, that you don't care that he doesn't call, you don't care that he doesn't context, and so he's gonna find that your vibe has shifted, that you're not all focused, and so if there is any remote chance that he has a capacity to step up, he will step up then, simply because you have not done anything to manipulate him, but what you have done is you have worked on your vibe, and you have worked on your inner strength, and you have worked on your sense of worthiness in a very deep way, Which is what he starts to find attractive, and which is why he steps up. This is the remote possibility that he has the capacity to step up. Many times, women are in relationships with emotionally unavailable men, so no matter what you do, an emotionally unavailable man is unavailable. He's not going to step up. But in this case, when the man is emotionally unavailable and he's not able to step What's gonna happen is that other men who are treating you well are just gonna occupy his space in your life. Slowly, you are going to get so used to being treated well that a man who is not treating you well will stop appearing attractive to you. Does it make sense? I'm gonna repeat this. It's a deep, deep concept here. The part of you that loves the man that is not loving you is the part of you that doesn't love you. We all have different parts within us, right? There's a part of you that loves you, but there's also a part within you that doesn't love you. And this part within you that doesn't love you is the part that loves this man and wants his attention and wants his validation. Okay? Now, when you start to open your heart to other good men out there, You are— this part within you that doesn't love you is the part that is starting to heal. This is the part that's going to start healing simply because it's getting love, it's getting attention, and it's starting to feel good, and it's starting to see, wow, I am worthy! Wow, I'm worthy! Wow, I deserve to be treated well! Wow, this feels so good! Why have I been feeling so bad all this while? I deserve to feel good. deserve to feel better, right? So if that man that you are wanting to get more attention from is capable of stepping up, he will see the shift in your vibe, and he will return and step up big style, without you having to say anything, without you having to do anything, except do the work on yourself. And in the possibility that he's an emotionally unavailable man, in the possibility that he's not capable of giving you more, simply because he doesn't want to give you more, simply because he doesn't want to have a committed relationship or get married, That's his choice. What's going to happen is that he's going to be left behind by other amazing men who are going to turn you on, who are going to make you feel good, who are going to give you the attention, the love, the full meal of a committed relationship and marriage that an amazing woman like you deserves. Now, at the end of this video, those are my 2 tips, firstly. Get your focus off him, Don't react in those 3 ways that I mentioned most women react, and then those 2 tips: get your focus off him and start opening your heart to other good men. Now, this advice is only going to work, as I said, for a woman who is willing to let go of her pain. Sometimes we can be so addicted to our pain, sometimes we can be so miserable and so satisfied in our misery, right? It's the only thing we know. Misery is the only thing we know, and it's the only thing that feels It feels safe and familiar, and so we hold on with all our lives to this man, simply because we are addicted to this pain. This advice is going to work for the woman who actually wants to release her pain, who doesn't want to feel in pain anymore, who wants to feel good, who wants to feel better in life, who wants to have fun, who wants to be supported, who wants to be loved, who wants to be turned on, who wants to have pleasurable orgasms and experience amazing sensuality and connection with a man, and not sit and pine for a man who's not giving her attention, affection, sex, and communication, and not giving her the full meal that she deserves. This is only going to work for women who want to feel better. If you don't want to feel better, then no advice is good enough, because you are still in a state where you want to hold on to your pain. So ask yourself, why am I settling in this miserable position? Why am I settling for less when I can actually have more? When I can have so much more? Why am I going only for a starter when I can have starter, main meal, and dessert? Right? This is about wanting to let go of the pain, wanting to release the pain, and actually opening your heart to more joy, more connection, more pleasure with men who are willing and capable of giving it to you. Thank you so much for joining on this livestream, ladies. Make sure to leave a comment. It really helps me and makes me happy to hear from all of you and to listen from you and hear that this has been helping you, because this way we can continue this format of livestreams where I come in and pick up a topic and really seriously help you. Now, don't forget, this is super important. The Single to Engaged Mastermind, which is the most exclusive way of working with me for the next 5 months, is now accepting applications. The spots are filling up. We are looking not for more than 10 women. We're actually happy to have a smaller group, but no more than 10 women who are going to be working with me and going from single to engaged all the way. This is where you become my VIP clients, my most exclusive clients. You get all the expertise, all the attention from me, and you deserve this. So step up, and if you know you're serious about love and you're not bullshitting and you're not just here to listen to a livestream every day, but you really want to make the big jumps, the big leaps, and go all the way from single to engaged, like so many of my clients have. In the last 2 years alone, 95 of my clients have gone from single to engaged. So make sure you fill out the application for the program. If your application gets selected before the 1st of April, you get a huge discount of €5,000 on the standard investment of the Mastermind. And if— I'm going to ask my assistant to leave the link to the Mastermind on the top of this video. What we're also going to do is, for the newbies, if you're looking to start small and still warming up to the work, then go download Attract Your Soulmate, my advanced training program for single women. It's going to give you dating skills and mindset work and help you go deeper into Feminine Energy. Or if you want to start even smaller, you can start with my ebook and affirmations. I'm going to make sure my team is going to leave the links to all those programs and products. We are here to help you, and we want you to believe and know that every brilliant, beautiful woman in this world deserves love, and she can have it when she is willing to do the work for it, when she's willing to do the inner work, when she's willing to learn the skills of love that work and give results. So I encourage you to go grab— my cough comes back. I encourage you to go download those programs and I am so excited to fly to London tomorrow actually and go on the BBC. Woohoo! So really excited about all those good things happening in my life as well and so excited to share them with all of you Divas. So don't just stop at this livestream. If you're looking to go all the way from single to engaged, go apply for the Mastermind. And if you're just starting, go download my programs, Attract Your Soulmate, Date Like a Diva. My team is going to leave the links on top of this video. And really take your love life in your hands. You can totally, so totally, have the love you desire. Lots of love. I love you all, and thank you for joining me. Bye, ladies! Bye!