Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Flirt with him!

2 May 2025 · 0 min

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In this YouTube advice segment, Sami Wunder encourages women to increase flirtation through text messaging. She frames teasing and presenting a subtle challenge as a way to prompt men to "step up" and demonstrate interest. Wunder argues that men are instinctively drawn to challenges, whether in romantic or platonic contexts, and that by positioning themselves as a challenge, women can activate this drive, leading men to rise to the occasion. The excerpt offers a concise, motivational call to action for viewers to adopt more playful, challenge‑based texting in their interactions.

How can you flirt a little more? Flirt on texts. If you guys are in communication often, it's just a way to tease, to get him to step up, show him that if he really wants you, he has to step up, and you are opening the door for him to step up. Because all men love a challenge. And even in a friendship, if you give a challenge, what you will see is that usually a man will rise up, because that's how men are trained to be instinctively. So start being more of a challenge around him. Flirt with him more on texts. I'm even looking—