Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Get Him Hooked Emotionally

8 Feb 2025 · 1 min

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In this monologue, Sami Wunder explains that the primary way to embody feminine energy is to connect deeply with one's own heart and feelings—both positive and negative. She argues that many ambitious, masculine-oriented men have suppressed their emotional lives to survive in a goal‑driven world. By being emotionally open and expressive, a woman can become a safe emotional space for her partner, allowing him to access his own vulnerability and feelings. The advice emphasizes showing genuine excitement (e.g., celebrating a birthday cake) and consistently staying in touch with personal emotions, thereby serving as a source that helps the masculine partner reconnect with his heart.

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The number one way to embody your Feminine Energy is to connect with your heart. And when I say connect with your heart, I truly mean connect with your feelings. And I don't just mean negative emotions, I also mean your positive emotions. If you get excited about your cake on your birthday, let him see that. You see, in the world of Masculine Energy, ambitious men, men who are go-getters, you know, they're so obsessed with doing, giving, providing, and moving forward that they've had to shut down their hearts. their own connection to their emotions in order to survive in this world. But then you come along in his life and you become the source and that safe space where he can feel his feelings and he can get in touch with his own heart because you are in touch with your own heart. And so in some way, you become the source for him to be connected with his own vulnerability and his own emotions.