Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Go silent on THIS man

23 Dec 2025 · 1 min

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In this YouTube monologue, Sami Wunder discusses relationship boundaries, emphasizing that silence can serve as self‑preservation when a partner disappears for weeks and then reappears. She advises ignoring such individuals, asserting they don’t deserve mental space, and redirecting emotional energy toward people who consistently show up and make her feel valued. Wunder also argues that maintaining a degree of uncertainty keeps men on their toes, and she stresses the importance of being ready to walk away if she’s not treated right, framing these actions as expressions of personal power.

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Silence is self-preservation. If somebody has not texted me for 2 weeks and then shows up back in my inbox and wants to see me, I'm just going to ignore this person. They don't even deserve a space in my head. They don't deserve a space in my thought process. So I'm going to move my energy back to somebody, onto somebody who is actually showing up in a way that I appreciate and makes me feel important and loved, versus leaking and wasting my energy on somebody who's clearly showing I'm not a priority for them. So I would indeed go silent on such a person. If you don't want a guy to take you for granted. You should always keep men a little bit on their toes and always exhibit the power that if you're not treated right, you will walk away.