Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Have you changed as a person?

15 Oct 2024 · 0 min

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In this YouTube monologue, Sami Wunder argues that many women unintentionally adopt "low‑vibration" behaviors—such as nagging, complaining, and making their partners feel bad—that sabotage the goal of having men become obsessed with them. She emphasizes that attraction is strongest when a person feels good, loved, desired, and wanted, and critiques the common approach of trying to secure male obsession through disempowered, negative actions. Wunder calls for women to shift toward more empowered, embodied ways of showing up, suggesting that this higher‑vibration presence will naturally foster desire and connection.

We want our men to be obsessed with us, and yet we are being low-vibration women— nagging, complaining, making him feel awful about himself, forgetting that we feel attraction towards people where we feel good, where we feel loved, where we feel desired, where we feel wanted. And yet the way we try to go about getting a man obsessed with us is by showing up in these less empowered, less embodied, low-vibrational ways.