He's not serious about you
28 Jul 2025 · 1 min
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In this solo dating‑advice monologue, Sami Wunder argues that a man who displays hot‑and‑cold behavior is not serious about a relationship. She links this pattern to modern dating dynamics: people juggle multiple apps, have abundant options, and often chase low‑effort partners (the "low‑hanging fruit" who are quick to have sex). When a man finds a more demanding partner, he may abandon the effort and later return to test the original woman's interest, creating a hot‑and‑cold cycle. Wunder frames this behavior as a clear red flag that the man lacks genuine commitment.
