Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

High Value sign men want to see

27 Feb 2024 · 0 min

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In this brief excerpt from his YouTube video, Sami Wunder presents a dating framework where women typically withhold sex while men withhold commitment, describing this reciprocal strategy as the correct approach to dating. He argues that women should not view their sexual restraint as a disadvantage because men understand that without commitment they will not receive sex. Conversely, a man's willingness to commit signals "high value" in his mind, especially when both parties are seeking long-term relationships. The overall message frames these dynamics as a natural, mutually understood exchange that defines high-value behavior in men.

In dating, women hold back sex and men hold back commitment. We cannot hold this against the genders. This is the right way to date. You, as a woman, are holding back with the sex, are not at the mercy of a guy to give you commitment. You know, he also understands that if he doesn't give you the commitment, you're not going to sleep with him. That is a sign of true high value in a man's mind, especially when we are dating for long-term goals.