Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

How does he feel around you?

3 Apr 2024 · 1 min

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In this concise advice segment, Sami Wunder explains that a woman's kindness, generosity, and nurturing behaviors—such as giving gifts, paying bills, or cleaning the home—do not guarantee that a man will fall in love with her or choose her as a partner. She argues that seeking a man's approval through these actions is ineffective. Instead, when a woman is with a healthy, empowered, masculine man, his choice is driven by how he feels when he is around her, not by what she does for him. The core message is that emotional connection, not transactional effort, determines a man's romantic commitment.

Just because you are kind, giving, and nurturing to a man doesn't mean he's going to fall in love with you or choose you to be his wife. Women, out of this desire to be loved by a guy, do things for him, give him stuff, pay his bills, show up in his home and clean the kitchen. We want to get the man's approval, want him to see us a certain way, and this doesn't work. If you're with a healthy, empowered, masculine man, he's never going to choose a woman because of what she does for him. He's always going to choose a woman because of how he feels around her.