Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

How feminine energy attracts men

1 Feb 2026 · 0 min

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In this excerpt, relationship coach Sami Wunder explains that when women become trapped in a constant masculine mode—always doing more and giving more—they eventually feel resentment. That resentment further dims their feminine energy, making them less magnetic, light, and happy. She emphasizes that the underlying desire is for a partner to lean into them, to feel romanced, to recognize their love, and to treat them like a queen.

Once we get entangled in the hamster wheel of being in our masculine, doing more, giving more, then resentment follows. And when resentment follows, our feminine energy dims even more. We're not magnetic and light and happy anymore. And this is so sad, because all you want is for him to lean into you. All you want is for him to come towards you. All you want is for him to see your love for him and to feel romanced and like a queen.