In this testimonial, Inessa (Speaker A) recounts her journey before and after purchasing Sami Wunder’s Leap Into Love program in late 2020. She describes a painful breakup from a year‑and‑a‑half‑old relationship, a 21‑year marriage that ended six years ago, and lingering resentment from over‑giving and a scarcity mindset. After applying the program’s teachings—setting boundaries, taking personal “me time,” delaying intimacy for three months, and prioritising her own life (“the cake”)—she attracted a new boyfriend who, in seven months, has been generous, supportive, and attentive. She details concrete examples of his generosity (paying for everything, cooking, building a fence, supporting her gluten‑free diet, gifting surfboards, organizing a backpacking trip, starting an organic garden). Inessa emphasizes that the relationship is “the frosting on the cake” of her already rich life of surfing, hiking, yoga, and friendships. She also highlights her investment philosophy: spending on spiritual retreats and personal growth rather than material goods, and praises Sami Wunder’s clear, practical teaching style, noting her own background as a higher‑education educator. The testimonial serves both as a personal success story and a promotion of the Leap Into Love program.
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Hello everybody, this is really a great pleasure to give a testimonial for Sami Wunder and her Leap Into Love program. I've been a client of Sami Wunder and I bought Leap Into Love on Pink Tuesday, which is around Thanksgiving in 2020, so about a year and a half ago. Before I bought the Leap Into Love, my boyfriend of about a year and a half Just broke up with me a week or 2 weeks prior to that, and I was completely heartbroken and in pain because I wanted to marry that man and I thought he was the one. Turned out that he wasn't the one. And now that I've learned so much from the program, I realized that he didn't even treat me that nice. I was overgiving and I was constantly resentful and I was waiting for his attention. And waiting for basically the crumbs of his love. And now I, I've learned so much. I was also married for 21 years, and very sadly, I have a son from my marriage. My marriage ended about 6 years ago, and I still have a lot of pain about my son who's almost 18. Who ended up growing up in a broken family. And if I knew back then what I know now, it's possible that I may still be married to the man which we had a really, really good friendship and good connection with, but the sparks were gone and I didn't feel loved. And I am a high-achieving woman. I've achieved very much in my professional life, but I took this masculine and energy into my relationship, and I was always overgiving, overdoing, and feeling resentful and not getting the love that I wanted. And now I have a boyfriend that we've been together for 7 months, and I am completely in love, and I'm really enjoying this relationship. I know it's still pretty new, but that's already been more amazing than I've ever He's been the most generous man to me. He paid for everything from the beginning, never asked me to pay, treated me to very nice meals even though I make twice as much than he does. He probably doesn't know it, but never— I never split the bill, never paid for anything. He cooks gourmet food for me. He goes out of his way to buy ingredients to support my gluten-free diet. He's been the most generous man to me. He like fixes things around the house. He fixed my drain. He built me stuff. He built me a fence. He built me a balance board. He gives me his surfboards to use and looking out for me in little and big ways. Gives me massages, calls me beautiful, calls me gorgeous. He took me on this 6-day backpacking trip of my lifetime that I was dreaming about for years and was super supportive of me. And And he started an organic garden for us. I'm sitting in the garden now and these are all the cucumbers and eggplants and salads. And we're eating like organic food that he grew for us every day. And very respectful, never puts me down and just striving to make me happy. That's all he really seems to want is to make me happy. So what I learned from the program I didn't really have limiting beliefs, but I always was a nice girl. I was overdoer, overgiver. And now I am not a nice girl. If I want me time, I take some me time, even though he doesn't like it. And I'm setting the boundaries. I, for the first time in my life, I waited like 3 months to be intimate. And this was like the best thing I've done for my self-esteem and for learning about myself and learning that I've So many times I've done things that men wanted to do rather than what I wanted to do. And I'm trying to practice what I've learned from Sami Wunder and the program. And the main thing is the relationship is the frosting on the cake. I need to have my cake, that is my life. So I have now life rich with activities, with surfing, hiking, yoga, my friends. And I try not to accommodate and change my plans for my boyfriend. And, uh, as a result, he never takes me for granted. He just cherishes every time he wants to spend with me, and he wants to spend more and more time with me. And the main thing I learned is there are plenty of good men out there. I used to have this scarcity mentality, and before I met my boyfriend, I've actually went out with more than 20 different men, many of them 3, 4 times, even more times, and they all paid me for wonderful meals. I can almost say that Leo almost paid for Itself with all the free meals that I've gotten. And I know it has been a big investment for me too, but I've never hesitated to buy— to take myself on spiritual retreats and pay for my personal growth. That's really the best investment I could make into myself. Everything else— I don't buy expensive clothes or expensive bags, but investing into myself has been always my value and my priority. And really my goal is to enjoy all I'm learning. I don't have the goal of marriage because I've already been married before and I'm older. I'm just enjoying receiving all the gifts and all the pleasure that I can receive. And I think really Sami has the gift. I'm an educator myself, I'm in higher education, and I think the way Sami explains the concept and makes them practical is really truly priceless. So I couldn't be happier with this.
