Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

How to be fun & playful in texting #Shorts | Sami Wunder

17 Jun 2022 · 1 min

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In this short video, dating coach Sami Wunder advises women on how to keep texting fun and engaging with men. She emphasizes avoiding sad or heavy messages and instead using texting as a "sacred opportunity" to connect and maintain interest. Wunder outlines two playful texting techniques: giving the man a humorous nickname (e.g., "Mr. Sherlock Holmes") that becomes an inside joke, and occasionally addressing him in a mock‑formal way (e.g., "Mr. Robert Wills") to add flirtatious intrigue. She frames these tactics as part of the broader art of flirting, confidence, and tapping into men’s love for playful energy.

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I always tell my clients to avoid sending any sobby, miserable, heavy texts, and we use texting as a sacred opportunity to connect, to have fun, and to keep a man interested in us. For this, I suggest 2 types of texts. The first one is, you know, the texts where you give him a funny name. You know, I remember a client who called her guy Mr. Sherlock Holmes became a really sweet joke between the two of them, an insider joke. And another idea to keep it playful and keep it fun is to sometimes get a little more formal. So maybe you want to not just talk to Robert, you want to talk to Mr. Robert Wills. Am I reaching the right person? Is it Mr. Robert Wills? Is it the same handsome Mr. Robert Wills? So this is the art of flirting, but I think it's also the art of confidence, and it's also the art of remembering that men love playful energy.