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How To Be Mysterious In Texting | Sami Wunder #shorts

30 Jun 2022 · 1 min

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In this short video, Sami Wunder advises women that sending many personal photos and details over text can backfire because men tend to value what they have to work for. She argues that when a man has to make an effort—such as arranging a date or courting—he will appreciate and value the woman’s attractiveness more. Therefore, she recommends limiting the amount of personal content shared via text, such as photos, information about friends, and other life details, in order to maintain mystery and increase perceived value.

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This can feel counterintuitive, because you would think that if you would send him all the photographs that you have in your sexy, pretty dresses, and with your girlfriends, and looking glamorous, that should turn him on, right? That should make him come for you. But quite the opposite! Men value what they work for. And so, if you give all the details on a platter to him, if you give him all your beautiful photographs, even without him asking for it, He's not earned it, and he's not going to value it. And when a man works to see you in that beautiful dress, when he makes effort to go on a date with you, to court you, to please you, that's when he deserves a bite of the amazingness that you are. But until then, you want to tone down the details. Don't send all those photographs. Don't show him who your friends are. Don't reveal everything about your life over texting. Remember to keep it mysterious.