Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

How To Know HE IS THE ONE

17 Aug 2026 · 1 min

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In this excerpt from Sami Wunder’s YouTube video, she outlines the first two "green flags" that indicate a man is a healthy, suitable partner. She emphasizes consistency as the most important sign, describing it as steady, regular contact without long gaps or silence, and a balanced pace of dating invitations. She also notes that intimacy should develop gradually over time. The segment sets the stage for a longer list of positive behaviors to look for in dating.

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Green flags! How do you know you're dating the right guy? I have a green pencil, a green top, and I am so ready to talk about how healthy men behave in dating. Sign number 1, green flag number 1, he is consistent. This is the biggest and the best sign a man can give you of his interest in you. There are no dramatic gaps, no dramatic silences. Everything moves at a nice, healthy pace. Every single week, he wants to see you. He stays in touch, sometimes a little more, sometimes a little less. But overall, there is a nice pace to his dating invitations, and the intimacy is slowly growing over time, which brings me to the 2nd green flag. I have my entire list here, so keep listening.