Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

How To Know If A Man Will Marry You #relationshipadvice #relationshiptips #commitment

12 Mar 2026 · 1 min

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In this segment of Sami Wunder’s relationship‑advice video, she argues that women who want a marriage‑ready partner should be direct about their expectations. She advises against becoming exclusive without first establishing a mutual agreement that both parties aim to be married within a year. By setting this one‑year timeline early, the conversation becomes a reference point to hold the partner accountable if a proposal does not materialise. Wunder notes that most women avoid this dialogue because they are not part of her ELEVATE program, which she presents as a framework for having such transparent discussions.

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A man who's interested and who has a serious desire for a commitment will not shy away when you are so forthright. In fact, I would never recommend closing down your options and getting exclusive without knowing that within the next year, we're both on the same page about getting married. And what this also gives you is that it gives you the ability to come back and refer to this conversation if the proposal is not happening within a year. If you discussed at the start of the connection, if you discussed when you were closing down your options, that you are going to close down your options for now, but you are looking to get married and settle down within the next 1 year. Does that work for him? And if he said yes, it works for him, then this is something you can bring him back to in order to keep him accountable. But as I said, most women don't have these conversations because they're not in ELEVATE.