Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Is he all about himself?

17 Aug 2025 · 1 min

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In this monologue, Sami Wunder explains how narcissistic and psychopathic men operate with a self‑centered agenda, constantly seeking personal advantage from women. He describes their tactics: pushing and disregarding boundaries, using name‑calling and emotional abuse to break down resistance, and specifically targeting women who lack strong boundaries, education, or self‑awareness. Wunder emphasizes that such men avoid strong, self‑possessed women because they cannot be easily exploited. He argues that many women remain vulnerable because they have not done the inner work needed to strengthen their boundaries, find their voice, and protect themselves from manipulation and abuse.

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Narcissists and psychopaths are all about themselves. They're all about, what do I want? What do I need? What is the advantage I can get from this woman? What are the benefits I can get from this woman? And so when you try to set boundaries with a narcissist or a psychopath, they're going to push those boundaries. They're not going to respect your personal limits. Narcissistic men and psychopaths don't like strong women with boundaries, because then they can't exploit you, then they can't use you, then they can't abuse you. So they push their limits, and if they don't get their way with you, they will call you all kinds of names, be mean to you, horrible to you, because they are looking to break you. They are looking to find that vulnerability. And unfortunately, there are many vulnerable women out there who don't do the inner work of strengthening themselves, strengthening their boundaries, finding their voice. These kind of men look for weak women with no education, no strength, no boundaries, so that they can enter this woman's world, then exploit her, use her, and abuse her.