Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Is he bonding with you?

31 Mar 2024 · 0 min

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In this brief relationship‑advice monologue, Sami Wunder explains that men demonstrate bonding by giving and investing in a partner. He emphasizes that investment isn’t limited to financial resources; it also includes time, energy, and effort. According to Wunder, a man who invests from a place of love, desire to please, and confidence that he won’t be used is showing genuine bonding. The core message is that authentic bonding is reflected in the willingness to share whatever one has—money, time, or emotional energy—without fear of exploitation.

Men bond when they give, when they make an effort, when they invest. It doesn't always have to look like money. Investment can also look like a man investing his time in you, his energy in you, his effort in you. Whatever he has, he is not holding it back because he's scared of being used. And they are coming from this place of, I love you, I like you, I want to please you, I want to see a smile on your face, and they're not afraid of investing in you.