Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Is he holding back from you?

27 Jul 2024 · 0 min

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In this segment, relationship coach Sami Wunder explains that men who are romantically attracted to a woman but are trying to conceal their feelings often display a distinctive on‑off pattern. After moments of intimacy they become insecure, fearing the relationship might progress, and deliberately pull back. This self‑imposed restraint creates confusing mixed signals, which Wunder identifies as a primary indicator that a man is hiding his true feelings.

So somebody who has more than just friendly feelings for you and who is trying to hide them while being attracted to you, they're going to have this on-off kind of behavior. They get insecure after that period of intimacy and they're like, this shouldn't be happening. I'm not going to let this grow. I'm going to hold back. Men who are into you romantically, they hold back artificially. And that is one of the most confusing and most important signs that he's hiding his feelings for you.